Ever heard the advice..."Just be yourself. It will happen."
How about... "Be mysterious. Let him lead. Be more feminine. Don't mention commitment or ask him where the relationship is going?"
What about... "just wait to meet the right person and it will all magically happen."
You go on date after date, being as demure as possible, hoping to meet the right person...
and lots of jerks show up instead!
So you try harder, and ask a friend to set you up. You make a profile on an online dating site. You
go on a few more dates... and they all suck. No connection. No spark.
You may even start to blame yourself. Why did I say that on the last date? That is why he lost interest in me, I sent too many texts. I showed too much interest or not enough. I liked him a little too much or not enough.
I am not the right look. My hair is not the right color. I intimidate men and scare them off or I am way too shy and quite to make a connection.... I am just not the type of girl men find appealing and want to marry.
You might blame your circumstances. The men that want to be married have already found someone.
The men that are still single at this age are jerks or unappealing. I missed my chance at finding the right person.
You might even give up. I am just going to take a little break before dating again. I need to heal after that last relationship. All men are....(negative adjective). I am just going to be single for the rest of my life.
So, what is the antidote to all these crappy thoughts in your head? How do you move past this and find love?